Moderator should not delete questions when they have comments, rather give a feedback so we can change it.

I now will have to post my complete question for the third time - and not being able to give feedback directly to moderator as to what I think was not very proper handling by moderator. First comment was that I had not followed rules of engagement by not writing PROOF of search - but when I asked (in my question) where I had overseen that I did not get an answer, only a new deletion and that I needed to remove reference to moderator. Frustrated!!!